I felt violated in some fundamental way. I think I've hit it on the nail now:
When you lie about another person, you violate
that person's integrity.
You violate them.
It doesn't matter your gender, color of skin, religion, political creed...
No one ever told me that. I had to learn it on my own.
Thank you, downtown YMCA Seattle. A very painful lesson, though.
-Lily H.
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