I've had many Zen teachers in the past, but I keep going back to my cat, the Zen teacher par excellence, not necessarily the best but the one whose presence I enjoy the most. "Stay in the present moment," s/he wordlessly says to and reminds me, "That's where I am." -my cats "You make me smile with my heart." -Lorenz Hart
A Zen teacher can say this but only my cats have lived this so marvelously.
It is how we respond to a traumatic event which determines whether trauma will be a cruel and punishing Medusa turning us into stone, or whether it will be a spiritual teacher...